Tuesday, April 17, 2012

tones

Master pointed out a moment ago that I don't notice the tone of my voice.

I wasn't feeling good, and he made me dinner. I am very picky with how things should look, feel, etc. Part of my OCD type of thing. Something was just a tinsy bit off with the sandwich, and I said, outloud, "I can't eat this."

I meant it as in relation to the thing that went against what I liked, but he took it as "I can't eat this because you suck at making it."

My tone was that way, and I didn't even notice that.

I apologized, and all that, and he accepted, but it's something we need to work on. I need to be more aware of my tone of voice.

It's not that I am purposefully being 'rude' or whatever tone people hear, I just don't...know.

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